I'm not going to discuss the personal stories, because I don't feel like they really have much of a place in a general discussion about the show.
The Idiotic Oracle wrote:
Also I stated before i'd let my sister watch it, but then i was thinking. I've met a LOT of heretics, more off this site, and the large majority of them seem to be racist, transphobic, and somehow even sexist. There's something about this show, above all others, that attract a lot of the most disgusting men on the internet, and im not sure why that is. Subliminal messaging? Some sort of mostly unhearable sound that we only hear subconsciously, like a reverse Lavender Town Tone? Either way i love my sister and i feel uncomfortable with the idea of her watching something that is evidently such a grossness magnet. She can keep watching carebears instead.
While I didn't have anything to say against the rest of your argument, I can't agree with this. "Racist, transphobic, sexist" - those are terms I can apply to many fans in any fandom. And honestly, to use an example I know you love, I've seen it often enough in the Homestuck fandom. That doesn't mean every fan is like that. I don't believe every troll fan goes around spitting Faygo into a bucket. I don't believe every fan will physically assault a person cosplaying a Homestuck character they dislike. They're just the oddballs, and while I am not interested in Homestuck, these extreme fans would not cause me to dissuade someone from trying to read Homestuck.
There are many adult MLP fans, both male and female, who don't identify with the "heretic" label, and there are "heretics" who are quite socially sound, just, well, very fanboyish. Can't generalize.