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how do i stop being jealous of all my friend's female friends?

Out of curiosity, what's a mum? That just makes me think of the flower, and I don't see how that signifies anything (I'm figuring this is just something I don't know about).

Well, that depends. Are you jealous in the sense that you like him? Or are you just friends, but want all of his attention?

[IF], in this context (ie. Homecoming), a mum is a traditional... thing made by a man to give to his lady to wear around her neck. A man wears a smaller version called a garter around his arm. A mum consists of a main piece with a bunch of garish decorations, and the ribbons part, where many times the guy's name or other meaningful stuff is on a ribbon.

Google "homecoming mum" and you'll most likely see what I mean.

Huh, absolutely none of the homecomings I have ever seen or heard of had "mums" - garters sure, those are super common, although the men typically wear it pinned to their suit pocket and women wear it wrapped around their wrists. The more you know!

Sleeve garters were originally designed to pin back your sleeves without having to roll them back. Used to be expensive as balls to get a tailored shirt, so off the rack numbers came with one stock standard sleeve length - super mad balls x bawx hueg. It also got used when you need to pin your sleeves back so you wouldn't get them dirty; hence why it's become associated with barmen and shit like that.

sleeve garters

are fucking cool

Well I guess Texas is retarded then, because that's the only mum I know other than Chrysanthemum.

Le sigh, Sailor Moon is afraid of me telling my parents about it and she won't tell me why.

Has she told her parents yet?
Because if she hasn't, she might be afraid that your parents will contact her parents and stuff will come out before she's comfortable with it.

That's entirely possible, though what bugs me is that she didn't even want to tell me why and then called herself a coward.
I did what I thought was best and told her that it's okay if whe doesn't want to talk about it now and that I was scared about it too, but for another reason.

So, is there such thing as being too honest in a relationship?

Sometimes. Depends on the situation.

Well that wholly depends on how long the relationship has been going on, and how deeply connected you are with your significant other. It's good to get big, obvious, and important things out of the way early on (like certain past relationships, STDs if you have a sexual relationship) but basically you should judge for yourself the "rate of discretion."

If on the first date you want to tell your lady about your explosive diarrhea, that would be a but too honest. It all depends on your comfort with eachother.

Sailor Moon never texts/calls me :I

And one of my friends brought up some thing

On RUCKY, she asked to be my valentine.

Not to go out

and when I asked her about that:

Me: So did you ask me to just be your valentine or..?
Her: No


I DON'T KNOW WHICH SHE MEANT NO TO

and if if the no was to "Just valentine" and we are dating, I feel it would be weird to ask if we are dating after 2 months of possibly dating. :I

I guess a big part of my hesitation is that I don't know how comfortable she is with me. And that I feel like we aren't as connected as we used to be.

Early on she told me that she wanted me to be completely honest with her about what I'm feeling, and what I want,

but it seems like every time I say anything negative at all, she takes it personally, and it only makes things worse.


Most of what I want to say is about my concerns about our relationship,

but I'm not sure if I should tell her all of my worries right now, or just see if they clear up, because I know I'm prone to a little bit of paranoia.

Yes. Yes, yes, and yes.

When you get to the point where you start nitpicking about little things that bug you, but you'd normally let slide, all for the sake of being honest and open just let it slide. If it's not important? It's not entirely necessary to bring it up.

There is a difference between lying and just not saying something.