AWKWARD ZOMBIE

I don't want to date her, well, not especially. I just want her to be pop flyin'.
I don't know what this means

hey oh man you're in the same situation I was/am in

Bunyip is 100% correct. Communicate! When I decided I would try the online relationship I'm currently in, I thought "I have to be completely open, because all we have is verbal communication." I mean, you should always be completely honest with the person you're dating no matter what situation you're in, but when the internet is your primary means of communication sometimes you'll have to explain things that might seem really simple. I've run into situations where I've had to overexplain myself, and sound really redundant, but it helps keep things clear and puts me at ease.

Bunyip is also right in that how she reacts is important. I am lucky in that my guy is very patient and understanding. Just do your best to make yourself understood. If she decides to take things the wrong way, it's not your fault.

ALSO THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT: stop over-thinking things. I am being super hypocritical saying this, but over-thinking causes unnecessary stress. Try and distract yourself with other things until you can actually talk to her. It's not easy, but just relax.

Thank you for your help. I'm glad we got each other's backs here.
Yeah, I was thinking along those lines myself. If I can't be open with her of all people I can't be open with anyone.

So I couldn't get on yesterday so I'll tell you guys what happened.
There's this guy at my school who's interested in me and asked me to homecoming last year.
i went and i never want to speak of it again
I know he's been interested in me, but I have someone else I'm interested in, so I thought I'd lie about having a boyfriend.
But before I even get the chance to do so, he asks me to be his escort to this talent show/pageant thing. It was awkward as hell. So I just squeaked out 'that would be weird', mentioned I'm taken, and I escaped as soon as possible.
He is in my first class of the day and he's standing next to me at graduation, because our names are right next to each other.
I take extra long to pack up my stuff so he can't walk me to my next class
plus he just came to peek into the room i'm hiding in now (the computer lab) and I know he's looking for me.
i ducked under the desk because i'm that much of a chicken
Am I terrible for avoiding him
I told him I was taken so does that make it okay?

Just tell him straight up you're not interested at all and if he insists tell him to leave you alone.

I'm the last one to say this, but you can't solve problems by running away from them.

And really, the worst thing you do is dodge him. It's understandable that you know you share the same classes so making things awkward and uncomfortable would inevitably happen. Just be up front with him. Trust me, I totally know how you feel. I have been in the same boat as you before. You HAVE to tell him STRAIGHT UP "I am not interested in you. I honestly feel uncomfortable around you and would rather we go our separate ways."

If you guys are friends (which you didn't specify you are so I doubt you like being around him), it's definitely ohk to be upfront and still be on good terms. And even if you don't want to be friends with him, no need to become cruel over it unless he persists even when you asked for him to stop.

Don't let him dictate where you go in your school. I understand you feel awkward but you NEVER let anyone on that you're not going to certain parts of your school because of them. You might give off a bad message that you're giving them the power to control your life. Don't give off that message. Go wherever you daisies well please, even if it means running into him.

Yeah, as long as he thinks there's a fraction of a chance, then he won't stop trying. It might be awkward at first, but just tell him basically to fuck off. Without being that rude, of course. The longer you take to lay down the law, the longer he's going to think you're playing hard to get and the harder he's going to try and get you. You pickin' up what I'm throwin' down?

this is how you relationship ok

www.youtube.com/watch?v=efTloIPzkkA

Regarding my problem on the last page:

I took the time to talk to her about it, and she said she hasn't been speaking to me because it's hurting her to the point of physical depression. What's hurting her? In her words "You're here... But you're not here." Using deductive reasoning I figured out that she's upset that I can't be there physically so she proposed a stay in the relationship until I can be with her.

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I need to talk to Sailor Moon, but she won't answer texts.

If I call her, would that seem kinda clingy?

On a scale of 1 to 10, how badly do you need to talk to her. Under 5, don't. Over 5 yes.

I just want to know if she wants to go to the movies, so not terribly important.

Phone calls are a lost art

Just go for it

If she's not responding, then she's probably busy. I wouldn't worry too much. Give it like, half hour or hour and then call her.