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dang dating at 14. you crazy kids start young.

well i guess. do you think her parents will talk to your parents? how much trouble would you or she get into if they found out? etc etc

This is the thing I really don't know too much about, mostly because I don't know much about her parents

One of my friends suggested that maybe I talk with her mom, or just be friends with the girl for a bit and eventually have her family know my family somehow and maybe convince her to late us date before her predetermined age

From somepne with the same experience.
Just go for it. What would happen is her mom would ground her for a while and she could never see you again.
But she's up for that and will roll with the consequences. Even if it comes to that you just gotta wait 2 years or so and date her the normal way. And there are always ways to communicate without the parents knowing.

Also is she mormon? Mormons usually dont let their kids date until 16, even then half the time is exclusively group dates. If she is mormon than it might be tougher to sneak around than you thought. And forget about getting laid(maybe the furthest thing from your mind right now), mormons are VERY against that, more so than they are against gay marriage.

Jewish

I'm not sure if she's Othordox or not though...

Then just distract her mom with cheddar, grab your sweety, and skip down with locked arms to the movie theater.

but really, movies are a good way to see each other, just go on a group date with one of your friends and your date will say she is going out with her friends, because she will be. And you can either watch the movie and cuddle or whatever, or hang out at the game place talking. I've done this a lot.

i feel like pointing out that sex at 14 is a really bad idea

That is a super good thing to point out

I third this.

I am in the exact same situation

Just letting you know, that keeping it underwraps will work for a while, months and months, but eventually you WILL be caught. Whether or not her parents will be cool with it I don't know, but just letting you know that it will happen if you decide to go out with her for that long.

But if you are 14 there are gonna be plenty of other girls so I would really recommend just going out with this chick.

Oh god I haven't cried like this since my grandmother died.

Had a Skype call with her. I kind of fell apart after the call when we were using the chat because she had to go to bed but she just brought her computer with her.

So she's not tolerant of homosexuality. So yeah, kind of fell apart. I basically turned into a giant sap and probably said "oh god I'm so sorry" around 75 times. And "you're so special" like 40.

But I think we worked things out.

Still going out next Sunday to talk about things in person.

Wait I'm confused

Seconded. Why were you apoligizing for her being intolerant?

I was apologizing for me falling apart.

God everything is so confusing even to me

so hey guys

so there's this guy that i am/was friends with, but we stopped talking for a while, but then we talked again tonight. which is fine but we immediately got back into this old pattern that we were in that is a really bad idea.

so how do i make this not suck

Don't be...

SQUIDWARD.