Akio wrote:
But he's not gay.
Nope
EDIT: Chris... you can act feminine, okay? I'm not sure what the proper term is for someone who does. Maybe it's metro; I don't know. But it's certainty not "tomgirl." That's a horrible euphemism; stop using it. Also, you can't wear woman's clothing. (At least not the undergarments, god.) You're not supposed to. They're design for women, not men. You can't not use women's restrooms for the same reason. Stop being a cynical bastard and grow up.
Chris pisses me off so much. I would say more but there's really no point; he's not going to read it.
ANOTHER EDIT: Okay, apparently people actually use the term "tomgirl." Like people who aren't Chris. I hate it but I guess I'll tolerate it.
Also, Chris is a totally hypocrite. He hates flamboyant gay people. But feels it's okay for him to walk out in public in woman's clothing and even use their restrooms? What the hell. And why does he feel panties are more comfortable than briefs? I can't comprehend that at all.
I don't exactly see how men can't wear women's clothing, unless you don't much care for crossdressers or transfolk doing something that feels right to them... can't speak much for the bathroom thing, since that seems like a sticky issue for people with gender identity problems... but I don't see why we still need to embrace the idea of gender specific clothing...
If Chris or any other human being prefers panties to briefs, briefs to panties, (not) wearing bras, etc., what's the big deal? It's their choice, it's not hurting anyone, and, generally speaking, most people will never know (though Chris seems to enjoy... sharing...), and if they do (in the case of a man wearing a very visible dress) they still have the right to do so, as long as they're not being obscene (which itself is a very subjective measure).
If you have an issue with Chris's sudden acceptance of wearing women's clothing because it is hypocritical (like his view on alcohol), he's not doing it because he's having a gender identity crisis (I think the world is more likely to end tomorrow than for Chris to have the capacity to contemplate his gender identity), or you just want to make a light-hearted joke about the issue, then that's fine. However, try not to make the fact that he's doing X action as a reason why he's a horrible/disgusting person (you wouldn't say he's a horrible person because he's a bad artist, because not all bad artists are horrible people). It comes across as very insulting and close-minded to people who do not like the societal roles and pressures placed on people to conform rather than be themselves, like telling a gamer that they have to become a sociopathic serial killer because that's what society expects of them...
And while I don't like either tomgirl or tomboy to describe gender oddities, metro doesn't fit this case. Metro is generally used for men who would be assumed to be gay because of the effeminate way they dress (short shorts, tank tops, funky hairstyles, etc.) but are actually straight. It's kind of like a camp straight (appearance wise) to match camp gay.
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EDIT: and I apologize if you came across wrong in your post and didn't mean it like that, but do keep in mind that the way you phrased your post will potentially get you on the bad side of a few people...
-K-
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