Galaxy Man wrote:
I have this weird feeling in my gut that all the Mako hate is due to Bolin/Korra not being a thing.
So I'm not the only one?
And I'm still surprised that people still think Korra maliciously used Bolin to get back at Mako. She was hurt by Mako spurning her confession. She needed a friend. Bolin took her out on what she thought of more as a couple of friends hanging out. He took it as a date and got his feelings hurt. Neither of them were wrong. It was just miscommunication.
Really, I feel bad for Mako. He had feelings for Korra but didn't want to make things weird by starting anything, and neither did she. Because neither of them took action, someone else came into the picture who obviously did have feelings for Mako, and that started a relationship. Mako was pop flyin' with Asami, especially since he didn't fully come to terms with his feelings for Korra at the time, and seemed to feel like they were just friends. Then, Korra, feeling threatened by Asami (not like "bitch took my man" but more like "I'm losing my chance to tell him how I feel") blindsided him with a confession. He still didn't know if he had feelings for Korra but did know he had feelings for Asami and couldn't just go "derp derp, breaking up so I can be with the avatar". Eventually he realized he had feelings for both and had to decide which one was more important to him, which is a really fucking difficult decision to make if this were a real life situation (we have the benefit of being outside observers, but what would happen if you had to choose between two people you love?).
Ultimately, it seems he chose Korra, and that's his decision to make. He shouldn't have to stay with Asami out of some ludicrous obligation to her, no more than he was obligated to do what fans wanted in Episode 5 and dump Asami "the evil bitch" for Korra. If this was a real thing, it wouldn't be fair to him or Asami for him to "settle" for her just because it didn't hurt her feelings in the short term.
I'm just really shocked that people went from bitching that Makorra was being ruined by Asami to "Fucking Mako, what gives him the right to choose who he loves more."