AWKWARD ZOMBIE

How the hell do I handle girl , or, in the case that you are a girl or gay male, guy problems? I need to know since there's no bloody manuals and whatever they want seems to not exist. By being in a relationship, am I screwed forever?

At the time of writing, my one broke up with me but has been toying the idea that we're still together, then getting mad if I try and solve it in my own aspie way. I thought talking through problems worked, but it doesn't when one side never opens their face and when they do, it's "Oh you're clingy".

Soooo it seemed like a plausible topic, considering how many of them are here. Plus I wanna be flamebait.

Discuss. (How girls/I/the world fails/wins/how you're indifferent to it)

If the other party of your relationship is not willing to openly discuss your problems, they aren't worth buggering over. Unless you explain to them how important it is to go over any blockades that are threatening your relationship. If they can't even understand that, then you deserve better.

I don't really have much problems. I've never had many guy problems since barely any guy has been interested in me dating wise IRL. lol

Just waiting till college to start worrying over men is my plan. :I

In all seriousness, though, I cannot really give any helpful advice due to my own inexperience. All I can say is do not under any circumstances attempt to argue with females. You will never win.

Well, Yanimae, I can't say I like your presence much (Always AGAINST whatever I think, it seems) but what you say here is probably right and a lot of people agree. I'm thinking I might be twisting this too, but I don't know. It's confusing and the feelings I have are still there. I wasn't entirely thinking with my penis so, eh, I don't know what's wrong. I can't read people either like I supposedly should, so that's problematic.

I was waiting to get flamed too, but here I was actually getting something useful.

Try hitting her.

Do I really sound like that?
I'm only against dating in high school for myself because I feel focusing on my school work is more important at the moment.
Doesn't mean you have to follow my ideas, I'm just stating them.

Well, I definitely understand those feelings. I've been in some mishaps myself somewhat like that. While you still have those feelings for the other, you know it isn't going to work out and that conflicts with your feelings. I don't know how long you've been with your significant other, so if you know them enough to think this is a relationship worth fighting for, then stay in it and keep trying to make it stronger.
So ya know, What doesn't kill your relationship makes it stronger.

Oh, when I said the first part, I meant in the other threads, your ideas always seem opposite of mine. ALWAYS. Makes it hard to talk to you when you say Ftw and the other person seems to go ftl. That, and I have a rather unstable personality.

And yeah, the relationship was together so far... actually about a year. I think we're both shakey. I'm not sure how to tell, but I think the feeling is still there. It burns almost like Holy Water.

As for inspiring help for other people, I know many of every type. homo male and female, bis, trans, pan (Myself included), upstanding members of society... Someone who recently discovered themselves offered to provide this for the rest of you:


I promptly asked why they were telling me this and that I don't have a vag. Would be nice, I guess, because otherwise I can't realistically know what's so hard about it.

Somehow, I think that can be picked apart as if it were a lego model.

And as far as keeping relationships going, there's a lot of things I hear about that. As far as my knowledge goes, sex is important, but shouldn't be introduced immediately. Also, there has to be variety. I'm not saying premarital sex is the answer, but at least keeping it in the pants is a good idea. I'm partially thinking some of these problems are from not doing it.

If the feeling is still there, I guess it's just that feeling of how much you guys still feel for each other after all that time.
High school relationships don't often last that long. To think you've already been with this person for so long and that you might be with them for an even longer time is sometimes a scary thought. It's something that comes with growing up. I don't know you enough to know how long your past relationships have gone on for, but if you or your partner haven't had very long term relationships in the past, it's understandable if you guys are new to have a rather long term relationship so far.

A healthy sexual relationship can help make your relationship stronger, but it shouldn't be heavily relied on. Focusing on the physical needs of a relationship more than your emotional needs will throw you out of balance. I personally think that if you can't have a mature adult to adult conversation about sex then you aren't ready to have it.
So talk to your partner about that issue and see what you guys agree on. Anything you disagree on you work it out until you do agree on it.

I have nothing against premarital sex. Just as long as it's between two consenting people who really understand what they're doing.
But just remember most importantly, while there are a lot of tough times with girlfriends and boyfriends, is to have fun. Relationships are supposed to be good for you and make you pop flyin'. If it's not benefiting or only stressing you out too much and too often, you probably shouldn't be in it.

oh wow long post is long. hurhur

I HAVE BOY PROBLEMS AT SCHOOL YO.

All he wants is your vag/futadick.

True story.

why does no one love me

THIS ISN'T A HELP THREAD FOR UNLOVED FAT BEARS.

i lol'd.

basically, follow common sense. like give me a problem you 2 are having.