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Sol Reaper · **Posted:** Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:05 pm

[Insert Fail] wrote:

There is a difference between lying and just not saying something.

My parents would beg to differ. :T

Vax · **Posted:** Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:15 pm

@betrippin
If you have doubts as to whether or not this girl is even in a romantic relationship with you, you should probably ask.

It may be awkward, but it's not like you should just be expected to be confused and never say anything about it.

Other than that, don't just wait for her to be more in touch with you because "that's just what people in relationships do" because you need to be upfront about your feelings about things. If she sees that as foolish or unacceptable then you should probably reevaluate the actual condition of your feelings for this chick.

Spoony · **Joined:** Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:14 am **Posts:** 9325

Sol Reaper wrote:

[Insert Fail] wrote:

There is a difference between lying and just not saying something.

My parents would beg to differ. :T

Lies of omission are something else entirely. I think her point was more that you shouldn't bring up something insignificant and puerile like OH MY GOD THE WAY YOU OPEATE DOORKNOBS IS INFURIATING YOU STUPID GIT just for the sake of being open.

[Insert Fail] · **Posted:** Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:42 pm

What Spoony said. I was trying to think of a short way to say "not being too honest is not the same as lying" but I think I fumbled there, sorry.

betrippin · **Posted:** Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:50 pm

When I try to text/call her, she doesn't answer 99% of the time

So I have no fucking clue what to do

[Insert Fail] · **Posted:** Tue Apr 24, 2012 10:59 pm

Well, if she's not responding to texts or calls, give her one last message that if she doesn't respond the relationship is over.

Alternatively, if you see her at school (assuming you go to the same school), find her and talk to her. If she's still unresponsive well, honestly dude it doesn't look like you're in a relationship. But dump her just so both know where things are.

Superior Bacon · **Posted:** Tue Apr 24, 2012 11:07 pm

it sounds more like this is a misunderstanding versus and actual relationship

Terraem · **Posted:** Wed Apr 25, 2012 9:50 am

All in all I really think it's rather rude to regularly not answer text messages.

Sol Reaper · **Posted:** Wed Apr 25, 2012 9:54 am

betrippin wrote:

When I try to text/call her, she doesn't answer 99% of the time

That's how my last girlfriend phased away from me. Might want to start preparing, man. If this goes out the way mine did then you will have no closure about it; you'll have to live the rest of your life not knowing. So I suggest you prepare your mental defense now.

Shad · **Joined:** Tue Apr 14, 2009 9:43 pm **Posts:** 15289

Considering they aren't even in a proper relationship to begin with, I don't think he'll have much trouble coping with the loss.

Sol Reaper · **Posted:** Wed Apr 25, 2012 10:36 am

I know, I'm-a just sayin'.

Mete · **Joined:** Thu Sep 17, 2009 2:54 pm **Posts:** 12656

You people should listen to Arino.

Cafall · **Posted:** Wed May 02, 2012 5:59 am

protip 17: don't aim for married ladies without an exceptional skill in haggling

Superior Bacon · **Posted:** Fri May 04, 2012 7:33 pm

hey guys

so i have this friend and i kiiinda got a crush on him, what the fuck do i do
like how do i tell if this is a thing

Spoony · **Joined:** Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:14 am **Posts:** 9325

only one way to find out

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