AWKWARD ZOMBIE

Klavier Gavin doesn't have crushes on people, he crushes people.

....Ja. :C

As in everyone has a crush on him.

....Ja!

Sometimes it'd easy to develop a crush on someone who you just really enjoy being around. Especially if you're single and don't have too much interaction with any other girls that interest you.

Don't read into it too much. It's okay to have a crush but not do anything with it until it kind of fades away. As long as they don't suddenly start confessing their undying love to you, you'll be just fine.

Aww, thanks, guys. Encouragement, yay! The only thing my friends have been doing is laughing and telling me how my life is like a soap opera (believe it or not, this is only a small portion of the guy drama in my life, ahhh).

Sorry for the double post...

I just found out that the guy that dumped me just a couple weeks ago because he "didn't want a relationship," is now IN a relationship.

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He's an asshole.

I think the fact that instead of dumping me to my face and saying so, he just stopped talking to me for 3 weeks - including him flat out ignoring me on several occasions - tipped me off to that fact, yes.

Still. I liked him, he led me to think that things were going somewhere definitive, and then, poof! Gone.

Ive been there. Both things actually, the avoidance dumping and the oblivious crushes. Its like theres some sort of immutable law of physics that says you cant find ouut about crushes till at least a year after it would ever matter.

Now I just assume all my friends or aquatintences are into me. Which for the most part is probably true

Aw man Raven, that's just the worst. I've had that happen recently, except to someone i used to like. I'm not gonna name any names. But yeah, That's bodaciously the worst thing a guy can do, because it just makes you feel like shit.


also with Friends, I kinda assume I have none until I starts actively hanging out with someone. :U Which doesn't happen too often. This also goes for then liking me. :U which hasnt really happened at all... people generally dont dig chubby chicks at my school so. Oh well.

I had that happen to me too, a girl saying she doesn't want a relationship and being in one a week after.

Anyway. He's an asshole. Don't feel bad because of the likes of him.

even though we're friends now my ex-boyfriend won't tell me why he ditched/ignored me for four years.

i still like him though.

what should i do?

If he wont tell you why he ignored you for 4 years, it would be better if you move on, honestly.

That's happened to me too. I asked this girl to homecoming, and she said she couldn't because her parents didn't want her in a relationship. She's a smart person, was in my AP class last year, so I know the overbearing parent feeling. I would have been just fine staying friends if she hadn't come to school on Homecoming weekend wearing a freaking mum. That just sealed her away into the "Lying Bitches" category, forever to never talk to me.



I'm gonna agree with Dastardly Ursine here. If he's too much if a dick to fess up then forget about him.