AWKWARD ZOMBIE

Considering buying girlfriend Skyward Sword for RUCKY since she got me concert tickets. Y/N/M?

Y!

Videogames are the ultimate form of gift

Do "i'm crazy," "i don't know," and "because," work as answers?

Even if we hadn't fought, I don't think there's much of a chance of a relationship, at least not for a long time. It's been 10 months now, but I just. I keep hoping. Time will pass, things will change, and then we'll be together again. It's dumb, I know. I don't even want to be in a long distance relationship, but. I don't know, I figured we'd work it out. I'm not opposed to living in Seattle, or at least I wasn't. And yeah, all our contact is/was online, but he wave a lot of mutual friends in common. So we're on the same websites, and if friend A posts something, we both see it and say something. My stomach just drops when I see her username.

I really do need to get to better place, mentally and emotionally, before I just... even deal with this. It just came at a really bad time.

Bro seriously, it's not dumb. Anyone in the world can attest to having those same thoughts after a break up, especially if you had a very deep fondness for the other person. Long distance or short distance doesn't change those feelings, or make them any less real. Know that it's perfectly natural for you to feel this way about someone who cares about you, and accepts you for who you are. You're not a dumb person. You're an awesome person, and you cannot control when these things happen, or how they will effect you. We all fall in love sometimes, and it can suck, but there are still positive things to be remembered about being together with that person. Always take the good and the bad.

I understand that it sucks to see this girls username around, and to surf around on the same sites that she does and to have the same friends as her, so maybe some time away from those places that will probably bring up bad feelings associated with her would do you good. Doing things to take your mind off the situation, no matter how long ago it was, can do a lot of good. When you do feel overwhelmed about your feelings towards the situation, talk to those close to you that you can trust to listen to you and just vent in whatever way you can. People will understand. Obviously IO is always there for you (so far as I have seen), and so are we, so never hesitate to talk to us when you feel overwhelmed.

Girl I fancy told me to text her more often.

good indicator she like me back? y/n?

y probably

Or she wants to be your friend or something

Ask her out if you fancy her?
Good way to find out.

A girl friend of mine feels like I didn't take her feelings into account when planning something with another friend. Now, while I understand why she feels like she should've gotten a heads up in this case, I think it's an unfortunate understanding, not something to be very much hurt about.

We spoke about it for a while but we simply don't agree on this, mainly because I think we feel differently.

Should I discuss it with her more and try to find some agreement, or give her a while to think about it and let her emotions rest?

No harm in waiting for a few days, but still bring it up; don't just forget about it.

>girl i like seems like she is subtly ignoring me
>talk to her casually every now and again
>find out someone told her i like her
>'oh cool i didnt realize i was back in 3rd grade'

ugh why cant i just man up and either ask her out or just agree to stay friends with her blah

Probably shouldn't do the former as that fact that she's ignoring you after being told you like means she she isn't interested in you.

Well it could also mean that she's nervous about it or something.

Yeah it's a weird situation to be in.

Play it cool, don't say anything. If she breaks and either doesn't say anything or moves on then it wasn't mean to be, chief. She might also be trying to work up the courage to say the same but, like you, is too nervous. Its like fishing, you casted the lure, she took a nibble but don't reel in yet. You gotta wait, maybe tug the line a bit, entice her. For now, just...fly casual. But not that casual, make sure you're paying attention. She'll come up, and take a sniff and if she likes she'll bite and you can reel her in, put her in a bucket of water and mount her when you get home. Or she'll deicde against it, swim off on her own. It's up to her now really, just be cool.

That advice sounds a bit fishy