AWKWARD ZOMBIE

If you have a nagging inner voice like me that constantly worries about how you're going to make a tool out of yourself in front of people, just do this one thing:

Tell it to fuck right off.

The voice is useful to keep people from doing extremely stupid shit, but for many people, it's more of a vice than a fence.

Once you're not worried about that, you can just be yourself and hopefully meet people with similar interests, and the rest just proceeds naturally from there.

Tales, what's your history with this guy? From the messages alone I don't really think you need to read into it that much because it seems like he's either joking around or just flirting with you.

I know where you're coming from but like, without going into too explicit details, he has flirted heavily with me before plus seeing as i haven't spoken to him in like a year it seems a but odd that he'd suddenly put a heart on a comment when we're not close friends

Clyve if you don't ever see this guy out of school, you don't trust him to not cheat on you (for whatever reason) and you suspect he might be a douche, then why are you dating him?

How long have you guys been together, if I might ask?

But yeah i mean, if you wanna break up with him or whatever, over the phone should suffice if you haven't really been goin out too long.

Yeah, if you're not diggin the relationship, perhaps it's best to cut it short sooner rather than later.

no, do it face to face. it's just. over the phone is kind of rude.

I wouldn't say it's overly rude if it's just been a one month relationship where next to nothing happened.

I will say that is a bit more personal face to face if you want to go with that.

from the sound of it i doubt he'll be heartbroken if you break up with him on the phone. it sounds like he doesn't seem to be putting an awful lot of effort into the relationship i guess

So the guy I had been seeing for a few months and I decided to break it off about two weeks ago. It was mutual and ended on friendly terms; he got a full-time job and won't be returning next semester so we thought it was for the best.

However

This week he took a trip to Ontario and surprise surprise, he's getting back together with his ex-fiance who dumped him about a year ago. So now he's re-thinking this job and wants to move back up to Canada and aknskjnbd

Am I validated to be full of unmitigated rage or what?

Not really because you both ended things mutually. It's not your business who he gets into a relationship with after you guys ended yours.

Unless the reason your relationship ended was that new job he got, and you still have feelings for him or something.

I mean it's not like you're not allowed to be angry or anything, but it doesn't make a ton of sense to me.

i understand. even if it was mutual, it's really, bothersome? to see the person basically turn around and the reason why you guys broke up doesn't matter when it comes to someone else.

Yeah I mean I definitely still have feelings. It's not like we ended things because we got into a fight or didn't like each other, so it just bothers me. Ahhh whatever, I'm just being immature and venting. I'll get over it.

Is it horrible to ask someone's friend to relay a message when you don't have a likely way to speak with them?
I feel so nervous augh.

Not really horrible naw, but usually it's better to talk directly to a person.