AWKWARD ZOMBIE

you guys need to have a serious discussion about boundaries. you need to work out what youre comfortable and not comfortable with with other people

honestly, if Tuxedo Mask got all upset and jealous over me being close and cuddly with my friends when i specifically chose him over anyone else and am probably not even interested in my friends like that, i'd drop him. i can't stand being restrained from treating my friends how i've always treated them. I don't believe in the "ball and chain"

Well I mean I'm perfectly fine with hugging and all that good stuff, but I mean, is it wrong for me not to be okay with her leaning on a guy with his arm around her, or some dude with his face really near her chest and her hand on her stomach?

kladjf;a I can't get that image out of my mind and it's driving me crazy.

I don't really see it as being a ball and chain. Some people just aren't as comfortable with things that you might be comfortable with. Sailor Moon was uncomfortable with me cursing all the time (which I do while I'm with friends), so I stop while she's around because it's not that big a deal.

I you never compromise anything then have fun trying to stay in a relationship.

So far I've had to lessen gaming to talk to my goil, and stopped talking to certain people.
Well some backstory is needed fort the second part.
This girl I used to talk to on and off suddenly hit me up, talking about how her boyfriend broke up with her and how she's all confused and lonely. Not being a retard I figured she wanted my willy wonka in her chocolate factory. Buuuuuuuuut I told her off and told her not to contact me anymore. Woo.
I should try to stop smoking since she doesn't like it too much but the one positive about long distance is you can do the shit that annoys them when they're not around.

Oh and Zang, the only REAL thing you can do is stick to it.
If it works out, then awesome.
If it doesn't, fuck it and have a party.

If a conversation with someone ends on an awkward silence that was entirely attributable to you, is there any proper way to apologize for it?
I just kind of feel bad about it, and I think the person I was talking to might have gotten the impression I wasn't interested in the conversation; I really just couldn't think of anything to say.

You know, that thing where the longer you make small talk the stupider you sound?

I'm considering a message over facebook but that just seems tacky.

In most cases acknowledging that you made it awkward just makes things more awkward. When that happens to me, I usually just want to forget it happened. When someone brings it up again it just makes me cringe.

How do I find a girlfriend when most girls here are not interested in a relationship, obnoxious, or both?

It isn't so much the silence that I want to apologize for; it's more that I'm worried she thinks I wasn't interested in the conversation because I was sort of quiet.

Should I still just let it slide, or am I right to worry that i inadvertently sent the wrong message?

PS Marcato the ones who aren't interested are just tusundre, try whipping out your dick

I would get arrested.

Marcato my advice to you is just to wait. If you come across a lady that you find interesting and attractive, and dating is a thing that could be possible, try to see if she has any interest in you. May not be a thing that happens soon, but any social circle or situation can introduce you to a lady that you may take a fancy to.

That's what I tell myself.

But it's hard sometimes.

So um, update on the thing with willow

So apparently she explained that the whole leaning/cuddling thing wasnt intimate at all. And it was less like cuddling and more like a whatever lets just chill thing.

So I'm sorry for causing an uproar.


that's all I guess.

I tried pretty hard to tell you that bro

Ask girl out

She says yes

Turns out her mom won't let her date until she's 16, but she doesn't care and it didn't deter her before, so she's going to keep it a secret to her mom

Already told my parents her and I are going out

Don't want to tell them the circumstances, otherwise they won't let me go out with her

inb4 the possibility that it might come to pulling off 2 years of a relationship without our families meet it if I keep going this way.

1. a. Should I keep going this way?
b. If I do, how do I pull it off?

2. If I decide not to, how do I keep it going? I really like this girl.