AWKWARD ZOMBIE

Do I smell a love octagon?

Oh geez please no. I can't handle that much woman.

Feeling much better. I just wanted to thank everyone for being supportive.

Bwah, anytime. We gays gotta stick together and watch out for each other.

So I'm a wee bit in love with my ex girlfriend again. What do.

Ask if she likes guys?

Well, she's a lesbian, so not really. But, I feel like, if we had still been dating when I came out, I think it would have been okay? We'd be on the level of person > gender identity.

Well there's two things you need to remember. The first thing is that, if these feelings are getting in the way of your feelings for your current girlfriend, you shouldn't keep it from her. There are few things worse than having things like these brought up long after there is any hope of talking about it while it is first becoming an issue and not being able to do anything about it. If it's just a little thing that's bothering you, then you can bring it up at your own discretion, obviously. Just don't leave anyone who is important to you in the dark.

The second thing to do is evaluate why the relationship didn't work in the first place, and see if that effects these feelings at all. If it was a mutual break up, then you should question the source of these resurrected feelings. If it was more on her end, then it really is perfectly natural for you to have feelings for her than never entirely went away. I see it happen to guys all the time. If it was of your own personal volition that the relationship didn't work, then you may be suffering from some confusion about the whole mess, and you'll need to sort it out yourself.

Obviously it's sorta hard for me to lend advice considering I don't know the story with you and your ex. Obviously that's personal stuff, but if you wanted to talk to me about it or anything, you could PM me. Always here to help however I can.
edit: wait shit I apologize if you're not actually in a relationship anymore. I thought I had seen you mention that you were but I now realize I am not sure. Sorry for the assumption bro

See for yourself if the reasons why you broke up last time aren't still there.

Well, one of the things was, we had super ridiculous fights. They became huge things over, super ridiculous stuff. We once had a nasty fight over homestuck of all things. But we haven't had a fight in a while.

Though. It wouldn't work out in the long run, at least not now. We were long distance, and she just recently moved in with a friend. I don't even have a job. I'd want to see her again but there isn't a lot of chances.

Yeah, this sounds like it was a rather strained relationship at times, and there may not be too much there for you at this point.

If she means something to you still, I'd suggest keeping contact with her, and seeing how things sort themselves out. It can be frustrating, of course, having unrequited feelings for a person, but if she doesn't feel the same, you should give her some space, but still, keeping contact and being friends with her could be a good way to go. Sometimes the universe has a way of bringing us our answers one way or another if we're patient.

(also yeah pardon me but that does seem super ridiculous)

Actually, we still talk everyday. It's on AIM, granted, but neither of us is thrilled with phones. And after we broke up, we went right back to being best friends. Basically no delay period. It's, a weird situation, I guess.

(late as hell but) Actually I don't find that all too weird a situation. It happened to me with my current girlfriend, actually. We were together for a while, and then after a bunch of stuff we broke up, but went back to being really good friends, and then best friends after a while. Eventually, we decided to try again and now it's been about two years.

To be honest, I think it's a good idea to be friends with someone before the relationship, but maybe that's just me, yeah?

We've known each other for over 6 years, actually.

Why do I type stupid things when I text cute girls? Things like LOL or yup or using a lot.

Marcato why you so dumb.