AWKWARD ZOMBIE

the best anniversary i've had with my fiance was when he took me to dinner to the cheesecake factory and we made ourselves sick on delicious food and cheesecake, then went to a park nearby and walked along the lake shoreline and took pictures of ducks and played on the children's playground equipment. handmade gifts are also super romantic and special.

it shouldn't take much to make it special :]



if you're in a LDR then mailing a letter/gift and spending the day on skype and playing a video game or something together? or surprise him by flying to him for the weekend if you can afford it haha. but really, it doesn't have to be fancy and expensive to be memorable and special.

So there's this girl I have a crush on, and I think she only likes me as a friend.

She's one of those really perky girls who are extremely nice to everyone all the time, and I find it absolutely adorable. I have always had a thing for girls like that.

Any advice on how I can get her to think of me as more than a friend?

Regarding anniversary gift things

I made an arts for my lady and I's one month; it's in the art thread under a link because the arting program I use has little flexibility with dimensions.

Ask her out. Sounds obvious but its better than setting up a million weird scenarios for her to discover what a nice guy you are.

wordsmith why would you just
post a picture of her
that aint cool man

I dont know, I didnt really think that would be a problem.

Its not like I was giving out her name or anything.

But now I see what a stupid decision that was.

Dire, can you remove that link from your post?

Too late!
Her head shall make a fine trophy on my mantlepiece...

Seriously though...ask her out?

If you believe most of the discussions I have on this topic, you need to have sex with her, since sex is the only difference between friendship and relationship.

if you want to be a little more subtle about it, hint that you like her, compliment her a over a few days. If she reacts well ask her out or go for a hug or something.


Or be forward, tell her you think shes cute and that you might be developing a crush on her depending on the conversation you are having with her at the moment. be like "So hey, you are totally awesome, smart/kind/fun, and cute/attractive. Depending on what you have to say I may or may not have a crush on you"

If that's the type of guy you are

Still feeling shitty about that girl I almost went on a date with, still haven't unadded her for some reason and I keep seeing pictures of her and just argh

why is this hard I've never actually met her jesus dickbutting christ

EDIT: Think I'm just gonna leave her one last message saying like yo I understand if you haven't been answering if you don't want to date me and if you don't that's cool but I just want to say that you're really cute and I was looking forward to it

Whoa there, I'm sure there were answers other than 'sex'. Physical attraction is a no brainer but I'm sure most people didn't just say 'sex is the difference' to be lazy.
I'm guessing that was meant to be tongue in cheek, but still, that ain't helpful.

Dire the joke is most people in this thread just say "she wants to bang" or "put her in a sink"

I thought Reyo was talking about his specific discussion from the Taboo topics.
Not that 'she wants to bang' is acceptable either.

Well to be honest, you're both sorta right. That discussion I had in the taboo topics was, like, a small percentage of the total discussion time I've put into this specific situation. So with that, it was more tongue in cheek at the individuals I usually have this discussion with than anything. I was joking about the stigma that sex is what drives a relationship.

Personally what I've done is just acted super interested in them. I'll spark conversations, go out of my way to include them in my conversations/be a part of their conversations, regularly invite them to things, whether it be alone or with friends. I do that to see if they reciprocate that. If they go along with everything, then I'll eventually sum up the courage to be like "Hey, you wanna make it long term or some shit?". If they start finding excuses not to go to things, ignore my attempts to make conversation, etc, I'll move on.

Yup, I'm 16, and he's 21. And yeah, it is a long distance relationship. I know I shouldn't make it too much of a big deal, but I really wanna make him something cool and amazing to show him how much I care. I have a good idea of what I want to do now, though, thanks! Also, I think for our one year, we're going to watch Howl's Moving Castle again. (It's our favorite movie and the one we were watching when we got together.)

Oh my GAWD! You're like 6 years younger than him oh my GAWD!

Oh my GAWD!

GAWD!

GAWD Oh my GAWD!

Make him a bracelet...?