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Why not try a different game or some other activity? Prove to her that you aren't a massive rager, ya know? Everybody gets frsutrated sometimes, and it seems like she understands where you're coming from since she admitted she used some infuriating tactics.

Nothing wrong with being competitive, as long as she knows it wasn't personal I'm sure she can forgive you. Sounds like she already has.

I've got a crush on this girl but I can't even bring myself to talk to her because I feel like she's way out of my league and will think I'm a creep. How should I go about starting a conversation with her? I don't want to be stupid and go up to her and start talking about the weather or some shit, but I can't really think of anything to say since I don't really know her.

Weather is a perfectly fine topic.

Let me show you. "Sure is a nice day today. Makes me wanna go for a walk or something. How about you?"

You're like 50% of the way to asking her out already in three sentences.

Is it really that simple? I overthink pretty much everything.

Never underestimate meaningless but pleasant conversation.

Good point. I guess I'll try talking to her on Monday. I'll update how it goes.

I have a crush on a girl ... but she's already going out with someone else. Yaaaay. Except she's not in love with him and she seems to doubt it'll last. But even then I don't think I'd interest her.

STILL WAITING FOR UPDATE MAN



Yeah, try not to get hung up over someone already in a relationship. If they do happen to break up, give her some time and then go for it, but definitely don't just wait for it to happen and ignore other possible relationships.

Ignore what ? I don't see what you're talking about ...

In the progress department of this thread: Willow and I have been a solid thing for a while now. Smooching and everything. It's awesome.

I mean don't miss out on a good opportunity that might come your way by waiting for this girl to break up with her boyfriend. Does that make more sense?

Not saying that's what you're doing.

What I meant was : I never get opportunities, or maybe I just never see them.

Well, you never know when one might happen by. Maybe you'll meet a cute lady Kergan tomorrow, who knows? You don't want to miss out on biscuits and coffee, do you?

So, guys, if you find yourself in a situation where you're freaking out more about someone's relationship status than the people who'd be in the relationship, maybe stop?

Because they might not find that cutesy crap as reinforcing as you do?

And might, in fact, find it to be an aversive situation.

Like I do.

Speaking of people outside of this forum, as always...

Your avatar is too perfect for that post.