DoNotDelete wrote:
If nothing else making an addendum to the rules pertaining to this issue would give the proletariats an easy 'fall-back' option if someone does start talking about that crap - all the proletariats have to do in that circumstance is say: "Stop cybering - it's against the rules."
Sure, I'll add that to rule 14 after we've discussed things between proletariats.
We thought our posts in the TMI and Health threads were enough explanations, but it is true that newcomers would not know about these explanations and changes since there is a big chance they would not read these. Adding something like this to the rules thread is better, as it will help make sure more people are aware of these things.
As for what forumites can and cannot discuss, we will add something to the rules shortly. We obviously don't want to police everything (for instance, I believe jokes about dragon dildos are fine as long as they're, you know, jokes), but there are obviously limits. I don't think that telling people not to talk about what they get off to or how they had sex is "over-moderating". The goal here is to avoid situations like what brought the locking of the last TMI thread (as well as the ones that brought the locking of the previous ones). However, I think we do want to avoid members talking about sex altogether
as long as it's not about asking for advice on safe sex, relationships or health. These are fine.
I will bring that up with the other moderators and we'll get back to you all. Please be patient, and thank you for the feedback!