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I have more of a personal question that I would like some opinions on if possible.

How have you guys gone about getting yourself more comfortable with sex? I have been dating Tuxedo Mask for a year and a half now although I've known him since we were in 7th grade, and for our anniversary a few weeks ago we decided to take it a step further and give each other oral. We are both virgins and this is both our first romantic relationship with anyone, so this is new to both of us. If anything we both kind of want to go all the way but I've been rather apprehensive about it. We're not in a rush to have sex and are respectful of that; our relationship is more than just that. I would personally like to at least wait until he turns 19 (I am a few months older than he is) before we actually lose our virginity, but I feel like there's a bit of awkwardness in our sexual tension because of my decision. He respects that and doesn't ask more from me, but I guess I feel almost like I'm...I don't know, disappointing him? Holding him back? Something of the sort

The only way you can be completely comfortable with sex is if you take everything at a pace that feels right for you. If you rush into anything because you feel like you have to, you won't be able to really enjoy yourself.

My advice is that you take your time to really get intimate with each other. Don't start off with the idea that you're going to have sex at that exact moment and proceed to take all your clothes off.

Take it slow, explore each other for a bit, make out, tease a little, feel him up in a way you're comfortable with, let him feel you up the same way. Do everything gently and don't feel like you have to take certain steps but let everything come natural.

It doesn't matter if you spend 2 hours with a little foreplay. If you both relax, get turned on and then decide to go through with anything, you'll both enjoy and appreciate it all the more.

The best way to get comfortable with sex is to talk about it. Don't leave eachother in the dark about your feelings towards it, and if you have any questions about it, don't feel embarrassed to put them by him, or anyone you trust about it. Don't feel like you have to schedule it or anything, because that can be sorta nerve wracking in my opinion. Let it happen naturally, and don't be afraid of making mistakes or being embarrassed. It's a pretty personal and emotional thing, but it's a fun thing, too!

Thanks guys, I really appreciate your help. We're at a point in our relationship where I'm perfectly comfortable for him to touch me as he pleases and vice versa, I guess I'm just a little nervous of actually going all the way and having sex. I guess I have a subconscious fear of our relationship becoming just pure sex, almost. I doubt it will happen, but I've seen people change into such couples and it just really bothers me. I have very weird views on love so I guess that's what's really affecting me in the end

As long as you're mature and serious about it, sex really can bring your relationship closer and make you a stronger couple, that's how it was for me and Tuxedo Mask. Being as close to someone as two people can be, can be a wonderful bonding experience.

But yeah, try to be open with each other about your sexuality and go at a pace where you both feel comfortable.

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also i just ate a blueberry and it EXPLODED on my mouth..


I feel like vomiting now.

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Blueberries are ruined forever for me, Mander.

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I have so much gas that Katie's dad would shed a tear of proudness if he ever heard me

bought a fancy vibrator today

entirely too excited to use it tonight

But isn't that like, the purpose of a vibrator?

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