The average food intake of a healthy person should have an equal split between protein, carbs, and vegetables/fruits. For those trying to be on a diet, the starches need to be dialed down and replaced with more of the other two groups.
This is the general concept for most diets that aren't weird about starving you off of something or insisting on smoothies or filler foods.
Now, breakfast usually is the meal you should have the most carbs, because you need a jumpstart for the day and your body doesn't like to dip into the fat reserves right off the bat without grumping at you. Dinner should be the meal with the least carbs, as you're easing yourself into the night, and any carbs absorbed will likely become fat unless you're active. You're better off burning fat at this time than anything.
Most diets fail because they take you from a comfortable routine and tell you to deny yourself things. No more carbs, lean meat, etc.
The main thing is controlling portion sizes. You can have fries, but have a third of what you'd normally have and have your burger without the bun. Going cold turkey usually does not have good results, at least not without some initial health issues.
The problem is that it's very hard to achieve this when carbs are often the cheapest foods available, and are extremely plentiful in things like fast food.
TheStranger wrote:
You'll notice that most "fat activists" arent the people who are just pretty big, we're talking "motorized scooter fat", the ones who throw a hissy fit when McDonalds doesnt provide sidecarts so they can cart home their daily 50 big macs
I think this is too much of a grotesque generalization about how the overweight are somehow assholes or boarish about their food. I've had more headaches with thin people talking about fat shaming than actual overweight people, and usually the people that I see throwing the biggest fits at fast food places are the people intent on counting carbs and calories and getting worked up because the salad dressing isn't fat-free or something. Certainly doesn't mean there aren't fat people who are assholes (there certainly are, and I've seen them), but I think when people think about what group is most likely to be general assholes about food, they immediately jump to morbidly obese wal-mart shopper mental images.
And I think that's part of what a lot of the fat activism (the stuff that isn't complete idiocy) is focused on.