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"Stealing from other cultures" is in itself an extremely racist sentiment. When you do blackface, the offense isn't in that you "stole" something, it's the implication that you're mocking someone else through overexaggerated caricature. It would be like a man stuffing pillows down all his clothes, smearing facepaint all over himself, piling toy jewelry on and then squacking in a stereotypical "female harpy" voice to "represent" women for the purpose of making a point about them in a story, as blackface was originally used for. That is offensive. The implication is that there's no point getting a real person of that particular group to portray themselves, because it'd be the same and they're inferior anyway.
A man dressing as a woman for halloween to comical effect is not offensive, on the other hand. It's neither a dig at trans* nor at women, in the same way someone dressing as a cartoonish dog or a giant banana is not a dig at mammals or fruit. The joke is that it's incongruous with the reality of what they personally are, not what anyone else is. Incongruity (often bastardized as "lol randomness" despite being different in nuance and result) is a well-known and ancient form of humor, and one of the least offensive out there, as well. If I chose to dress as an extravagant caricature of a stereotypical british gent with a luxurious stache and top hat, how many people would be reasonably offended that I'm "appropriating" maleness or "british" culture? When the joke is that I am not, in fact, what I am portraying myself as, rather than that "gee this group I'm representing is sure silly"? It's not any different from the running gag that I'm secretly a talking bread animal, except that bread animals aren't a group that exist to complain.
Since when is it okay to pigeonhole people according to perceived ethnicity and culture anyway? The end line of "appropriation" is that all races and nationalities should be forced to strictly comply to ONLY things that can be directly attributed to just them, and never sample, appreciate or imitate things from others. And if that's the case, pretty much only the chinese and arabic peoples are going to have jack shit left, since we "appropriated" numbers, medicine, many forms of writing and art, etc. from them. For that matter, maybe everyone who isn't 100% pure african native should just stop existing, since we appropriated the act of being this species from them.
All humans are humans. We're all the same species. There's more genetic difference between a set of caucasian brothers and sisters than between a black man and a european of mixed heritage, or between an asian and native american, for that matter. What "appropriation" comes down to is "I don't want you to have what I have," and the last time I checked, that's a really, really shitty way to treat someone else. "I got here FIRST and IT'S MINE so you CAN'T" is toddler logic, especially since people accused of "appropriation" aren't claiming to have MADE jazz, twerking, or whatever the hell else. They're just enjoying that particular thing. Big fucking deal.
When people complain about religious symbols being used wrongly, that's slightly different. But still not an excuse.
To be honest I find tacky trailer trash rhinestone crosses a little offensive, at least from the standpoint of sensibility and taste. But you know what? It's not my right to complain about that, and least of all attack people over it, not because I'm not "one of them," but because what someone else is and isn't is none of my business. It's all well and good to want to defend the integrity of a religious symbol, but that doesn't apply to "I DON'T THINK THIS PERSON HAS A RIGHT TO WEAR IT!"
How the hell do YOU know that person isn't native american? Because they look white and middle class? That in itself is racist. I'm white as hell and was blonde haired and blue eyed as a baby. I'm also legally native american because of my great grandparents. During the "the kids are aracial" debate in homestuck, people complained that the kids "couldn't realistically" be black or any non-white due to affluence, lifestyle or geographic area. What the hell, tumblr? A black family can't be wealthy enough to live in their own house, or have a businessman father? An asian family can't enjoy the watered down American version of "real" japanese entertainment? Since when?
And back on the subject of the headdress/religious symbols point-- since when is it either impossible or offensive that someone convert to, or just BELONG to, a religion that isn't "racially theirs"? I'm not Jewish from Israel. Does that make me and my mixed pool of ancestry too "dirty" to touch "someone else's" religion? Even though my father was born and raised into it, and I converted as a child when my parents were married? Or maybe it doesn't matter, since suddenly Jews are taboo again because they're white and have to do with cheddar. Or maybe it doesn't matter because I didn't convert as an adult, because gross yucky old people don't get how right youth culture is! No matter how you try to spin it, it's so loaded with bigoted fallacies I could never find the time to point out every single one.
A lot of the posts in the screencaps thread lately have been related to someone overzealous jumping down someone else's throat about perceived appropriation, only to find out their "fuck off and die cissexual/white boy/straight kid/whatever" rhetoric was addressing someone who either wasn't talking about what they thought, or actually did belong to the group they were trying to "defend," which is several steps more offensive than someone who dares to "infringe" on another race's "right" to something they inspired. I'm never offended by people wishing me a Merry Christmas, or by sentiments that someone would pray for me or my family under culturally appropriate conditions (someone is very ill, something bad happened, etc.), or anything like that. You know what I'm offended by? People trying to "defend" me using wrong-headed ideas about what I "am" based on race, family situation, or religion. Kids who assume I hate my dad because I was legally adopted by him, people who assume because I'm not a part of the religious majority, I need to respond with resentment and hate toward people merely because they're not like me, etc. THAT'S what's really offensive.
tl;dr In the same way that worrying about oneself or others appearing childish is, in itself, childish, worrying about how racist, not racist, or whatever someone else is in the manner of "appropriation!" is invariably selfish, racist, offensive and wrong-headed, and no amount of "BUT THAT'S THEIR FEEEEELINGS" changes it. At some point, your feelings don't matter enough to be the only justification you have for attacking or shaming others and not being a dick for doing so. They just don't. That's what it means to be an adult. You are not the center of the universe, and neither are your interests or customs. They aren't sacred just because they're "yours," and other people are allowed to experience new things and enjoy other practices. The end.
EDIT: This isn't AT anyone on the forum by the way, and certainly not Tales. It's just a big huge post dump addressing a lot of the most common "points" people try to make about appropriation.
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